| Location | Newark |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 01/02/2008 |
| Date of Death | 01/02/2008 |
| Visitors | 12,124 since 11/04/2008 |
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first born child to lisa hague and kristian commons and missed every single second of every day.
lola came into this world sleeping on 1st february 2008
38 weeks pregnant hospital bag in the boot of my car, nursery full of toys, pram, cot and 2 hearts full of love ready for the grand arrival - what can go wrong, what can possibly go wrong when you are 38 weeks pregnant....... everything!
31st Jan i had a scan at city hospital just to see why our angel hadnt grown any in the last 2 weeks that is where my world shattered and i was told that lola didnt have a heart beat, i felt my heart stop beating too. it was the only appointment i attended alone because i knew everything would be ok, i didnt need anyone to be there.
Before this happend heart breaking was it raining on a saturday or realising you have left your expensive purse on the top of your car whilst putting the shopping in and then driving off. Heartbreaking had a whole new meaning from that point, heart breaking is telling the man you love that his daughter isnt going to be here in 2 weeks. Heartbreaking is delivering your baby and then to be told you cant have her to take home after 8 and a half months that your body has been her home. Heartbreaking is looking at kristian and seeing the look of fear and dissapointment in his eyes.
i went into natural labour that night and god decided to go a little easier on us at this point and within 6 hours and 40 gass and air tanks later she was here. i can not begin to describe what that feeling is like to deliver your baby into this world knowing she will never take a breath or look into your eyes.
my best friend kellie lives in dubai and she has been a rock for me, even 5,000 miles away she always knows what to say, i know at any point i could have said get on that flight and she would have been on the next flight home!! thanks kel.
We decided to have a full postmortem on lola to find out exactely why we lost her, we also decided to have her organs donated to research. if lola shares me and her dads caring characteristics she would be happy with that choice im sure.
Then it was a case of coming home and trying to get our heads round that there would be a funeral in a couple of weeks and the fact that we had left the hospital and left lola there :-(
The funeral went as well as your babies funeral can be but only me and her daddy attended (this wasnt through lack of people wanting to attend i can assure you) thats the way we wanted it , the funeral was our time to grieve and until that point i dont think we truely understood that she wasnt coming. It hits you like a ton of bricks that the name that you have said a million times and have been so excited about is on a white casket twice the size of a shoe box 5 days before you were due to have her.
Where do our lives take us now, im not sure ...i would like to think that one day i will have a baby that i am able to hold in my arms but who knows if we will ever be strong enough to do such a thing.
I would like to thank my partner kristian for without him i would not have such a beautiful daughter.
We love lola more than anything she is constantly in our thoughts,
A child who loses its parent is called an orphan
A man who looses his wife is called a widower
A woman who looses her husband is called a widow
However, there is no name for a parent who looses a baby
There is no word to describe such pain
mummy and daddy and everyone down here loves you sweetheart, you will never ever be forgotten!!
good night angel x x x
Results from postmortem showed that my placenta had given up and consequently not fed lola properly, the most common cause for stillborn babies.
thank you for taking the time to read our story. x lisa and kris x
please do not leave lola gifts on this site, im not happy that this is a new feature on this site and is made for you to feel like you are leaving her gifts. Kris and myself will make a donation to gonetoosoon. thank you x
You're still in our hearts and thoughts Lola, it's hard to imagine 4 years have almost past.
We all wish you were with us. Lots of love, Aunty Kel, Uncle James and Seth xx
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Thinking of you at Christmastime
You're in my thoughts today
You've only gone to Heaven
To watch over us each day.
Today we'll spend together
just like we always do
I'm sending Christmas Wishes
with love
from me to you.
Christmas blessings
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~ GOODNIGHT GODBLESS ANGEL ~
`♥ Christmas Without You`♥
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Christmas without you here with me,
can never possibly be the same.
But I carry an Angel within my heart;
one so precious, who has your name.
An Angel forever watching over me,
at Christmas time, and over the year.
Although you can't be here anymore,
inside my heart, you are so very near.
There is no special present for you,
wrapped up under my Christmas tree.
But I have a greater gift to give to you;
all the love you can still feel from me.
No, Christmas time without you here,
could not ever possibly be the same.
But, I have had the precious gift of you,
and the memories and love, will remain.
� Pamela Hall
All my love Sylvie
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOLA
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Lola
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOLA
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ*THOSE WE LOVE **ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ
BIG HUGS LOLA
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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ Marie-Jeanne Belanger take care ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ hugs and XXXX bye for now good ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰
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♥ ♥ ♥ Angel Day bigs hugs from me to you and your family and friends that you miss you ever day but in our hearts forever take care love you bye for now hugs love from me.♥ ♥ ♥
Here is a precious gift that you can never see.
The reason it's so special is it's just for you from me.
Whenever you are lonely or feel a little blue,
you only have to hold this gift to know I think of you.
You never should unwrap it though, leave the ribbon tied.
Hold the box close to your heart, it's filled with love inside!!
Lots of love, Cousin Max,
xxxxxxx
Hey kris and lisa when i first heard about lola grace i wished i had known this website it's beautiful and tht beautiful girl would of bin born to the most wonderful people in the world and iknow the goal against man u meant something to u kris wat a fitting tribute to your little girl
pray tht an angel is holding here safe and loving just as much as u and lisa did.
the love will never burn out just like the light of a candle
thoughts and prayers go out to u
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
♥;LGC.
you are so beautiful Lola, God must decide to take the best one's out! he needed a new angel, and then he saw you.
i wish i was as beautiful as you! i must of fell down the ugly tree!
hope your okay up there.
lots of love; keri ♥ xxxx
hey Lola,
i cant sleep so i thought i'd write you a tribute, so i apologise if i have any mistakes; its because im on my ipod and its hard to write using this!
hope your having a good time up there miss! take every moment in; thats what they say isn't it :)
your daddy had to go off on saturday, and because he went down in the penalty box near the east stand corner, where i sit, i saw straight away that he had done his hamstring because i saw him rubbing it.. they said on the dcfc website it was just a strain but he got his scan results back today and its a tear so that means he's out for 4-6 weeks, so keep on looking down & shining on your dad so he can be back doing what he does best soon :)
your mummy is still looking after April and im sure she is doing amazing at being a mummy and looking after your lil' sis! so keep on shining on your mummy and April and everything will be fine for them too :)
sleep tight miss commons.. one of the most beautiful angels ever.
love from Keri :) xxx
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